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Divorce is often portrayed as a legal battle—stressful, expensive, and emotionally draining. But it doesn’t have to be that way. For many couples in California, divorce mediation offers a more respectful, private, and cost-effective alternative to litigation.
At Off the Record Mediation Services LLC, we specialize in helping couples navigate divorce with dignity. Whether you’re in Orange County, the Bay Area, or anywhere across California, mediation may be the peaceful path forward you’ve been looking for.
What Is Divorce Mediation?
Divorce mediation is a voluntary process where both spouses work with a neutral third-party mediator to resolve issues such as:
- Division of assets and debts
- Parenting time and child custody
- Child support and spousal support
- Other matters unique to your situation
Unlike courtroom proceedings, which can be combative and impersonal, mediation focuses on communication, compromise, and control—giving both parties the opportunity to shape their own future.
How Mediation Differs from Litigation
- Mediation is collaborative, not adversarial.
The focus is on mutual agreement, not “winning” a case. - It’s confidential.
Court proceedings become part of the public record. Mediation remains private. - It’s more affordable.
Mediation often costs thousands less than a contested divorce. - You stay in control.
You and your spouse—not a judge—make the final decisions.
At Off the Record, our founder Dorit L. Goikhman serves as a trained mediator who facilitates thoughtful discussions and helps both parties focus on resolution, not resentment.
Who Is a Good Fit for Mediation?
Mediation works best when both spouses are willing to:
- Be transparent about finances
- Listen and communicate respectfully
- Consider the other person’s needs
- Focus on solutions instead of blame
It’s an ideal option for couples who want to avoid litigation, reduce stress, and protect their family’s well-being—especially when children are involved.
When Mediation May Not Be the Right Fit
In some cases, mediation may not be appropriate—such as when there are issues of:
- Domestic violence or abuse
- Severe power imbalances
- Unwillingness to cooperate in good faith
If you’re unsure whether your situation qualifies, we can help you explore your options in a confidential, judgment-free setting.
Take the First Step with Confidence
Choosing how to divorce is one of the most important decisions you’ll make. Mediation puts the power back in your hands—and gives you a chance to move forward with clarity, efficiency, and respect.
Contact Off the Record Mediation Services today to schedule your free 30-minute consultation. Call us at 866-223-4153 or book online. Let’s find out if mediation is the right step for you.