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Divorce can be one of life’s most challenging transitions—but it doesn’t have to be adversarial. Divorce mediation in California offers a more respectful, cost-effective, and streamlined approach to ending a marriage.
At Off the Record Mediation Services LLC, we help couples throughout California—especially in regions like Orange County and the Bay Area—find common ground through mediation, so they can move forward with clarity and confidence.
What Is Divorce Mediation in California?
Mediation is a voluntary process where both spouses work with a neutral mediator to resolve divorce-related issues. Unlike litigation, mediation is collaborative and designed to avoid the courtroom entirely.
Through guided sessions, couples can address:
- Property and debt division
- Spousal and child support
- Parenting time and custody arrangements
The goal? A mutually agreeable settlement that reflects the unique needs of your family—without going to trial.
Benefits of Mediation
- Saves Time and Money: Mediation is typically faster and significantly more affordable than court proceedings.
- Confidential Process: Everything discussed stays private—unlike public court records.
- More Control: You and your spouse—not a judge—make the final decisions.
- Healthier Communication: Mediation fosters cooperation, which is especially valuable when children are involved.
How Divorce Mediation Works in California
- Initial Agreement: Both parties agree to mediate.
- Information Gathering: You’ll prepare financial documents and identify key issues to resolve.
- Mediation Sessions: A trained mediator facilitates productive, respectful conversations.
- Drafting the Agreement: Once consensus is reached, the mediator can help prepare a written agreement for court submission.
- Legal Finalization: The agreement is reviewed and submitted to the court for approval and becomes legally binding.
At Off the Record, Dorit L. Goikhman facilitates sessions in a calm, neutral setting. She does not offer legal advice or take sides—instead, she helps both parties focus on solutions and avoid unnecessary conflict.
When Is Mediation Not Ideal?
While mediation works for many, it may not be appropriate in cases involving domestic violence, coercion, or unwillingness to negotiate in good faith. In such situations, litigation or legal representation may be necessary.
Mediation Costs in California
Costs vary by mediator and case complexity. Most mediators charge hourly rates. However, because mediation typically resolves faster than litigation, it is still usually the more affordable route.
Ready to Mediate Your Divorce the Right Way?
Divorce Mediation in California doesn’t just help you avoid court—it helps you preserve your peace of mind. At Off the Record Mediation Services LLC, we’re committed to guiding you through the process with professionalism, empathy, and efficiency.
Call us today at 866-223-4153 or schedule your free 30-minute consultation online. Let’s find the best path forward—together.