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After working through the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce mediation, there’s nothing more satisfying than finding common ground. But once you’ve reached agreement on the major issues, what’s next?
At Off the Record Mediation Services LLC, we guide couples through the final step in the process: turning those verbal agreements into a legally binding divorce settlement. This step which is drafting the divorce agreement is where your decisions take shape on paper and move you one step closer to closure.
What Is the Divorce Agreement?
A divorce agreement (also known as a marital settlement agreement or mediated settlement agreement) is a comprehensive document that outlines everything you and your spouse have agreed to in mediation, including:
- Division of property and debts
- Child custody and visitation schedules
- Child support and spousal support terms
- Any other arrangements unique to your family
Once finalized and approved by the court, this agreement becomes part of your divorce judgment and is legally enforceable.
Who Drafts the Agreement?
At Off the Record, once both parties have reached consensus on all necessary issues, Dorit L. Goikhman—a trained mediator and experienced family law attorney—can prepare a draft of the agreement based on your mediated terms.
Although Dorit serves as a neutral party and does not provide legal advice, her legal background ensures the document is written clearly, accurately, and in a way that complies with California law.
What If We’re Still Unsure About Some Terms?
It’s okay to need more time. Some couples choose to:
- Review the agreement with their own attorneys
- Schedule an additional session to clarify or revise language
- Take time to think through final terms, especially when children or long-term finances are involved
Mediation is flexible, and the agreement isn’t official until both parties are confident in what they’re signing.
Should We Have Attorneys Review the Agreement?
Yes—while not required, it’s strongly recommended that each party have their own attorney review the final document before signing. Legal review helps ensure:
- Your rights and interests are protected
- You understand all terms and responsibilities
- The agreement won’t be challenged later in court
Even in amicable divorces, independent legal advice provides peace of mind and long-term security.
Submitting the Agreement to the Court
Once both parties sign the final version, the agreement is submitted to the court along with other required documents. If everything is in order, a judge will approve your divorce judgment without the need for a trial or court appearance.
You are officially divorced, and your mediated agreement becomes enforceable under California law.
The Value of a Well-Written Agreement
A clear, thorough agreement helps prevent future conflict. It spells out each party’s obligations and expectations, reducing the likelihood of misunderstandings or the need for enforcement down the road.
At Off the Record, our goal is to help you leave mediation with more than just a handshake—we help you walk away with a workable plan for the future.
Let’s Turn Your Agreements into Action
If you’ve reached resolution through mediation, the final step is drafting the agreement that brings it all together. At Off the Record Mediation Services LLC, we’re here to make that process smooth, professional, and fully aligned with California’s legal standards.
Call us at 866-223-4153 or book your free 30-minute consultation online. Let’s finalize your divorce agreement and help you move forward—on your terms.